Hey people who accidentally looked at this blog! Welcome :)
I have been busy over the last week - dealing with work drama - YAY but I have still been working n becoming a better man. Over the last 9 days we had the following tasks:
Day 17: Talk to 3 Strangers === this one is an epic fail for me, I am too shy to walk up to a stranger and say 'what up'. That and I am sure the TW won’t appreciate me hitting on women anymore... so yeah... This one is a work in progress...
Day 18: Find Your N.U.T.s == this may sound funny, but it’s quite important. NUT's stand for Non-negotiable, Unalterable Terms. What are you committed to more than anything else? For me I have a few things. Family is #1 (and I am sure it will be for most of us) but if anything happens with my family I drop everything and take care of that. Another is not to let Peyton eat fast food. I won’t let her be in my shoes... and on that note starting today the only fast food I will eat will be subway etc. This I swear. /climb off soapbox :P And lastly, I will always tell the truth -- no matter what. I have always done this (well not counting my stupid kid and teenage years) and I feel being honest tells the world that you’re a stand up man.
Day 19: Schedule a Physical Exam == yeah no... I don’t care for doctors... but maybe once I feel better about myself I will
Day 20: Perform Service -- This I would love, I am passionate over a few causes and if I had more time (from work and family) I would do something. Unfortunately where I am at this moment in time makes it a challenge. For the short term I have committed to be involved with my charities to make the world a better place.
Day 21: Write Your Own Eulogy -- skipped this one, as I am not morbid or full of myself. When I die I don’t expect a lot of fanfare or a lot of people there. Just the close friends and family I love.
Day 22: Improve Your Posture -- well according to WiiFit my posture is okay. That said I am more mindful of it.
Day 23: Learn a Manual Skill == since I am trying (albeit slower than I thought) to do my basement, I am learning all the time. I find it fun and for a tech nerd like me - doing things with my hands is quite fun!
Day 24: Play! == Ahhh having a 3 year old helps with this... now if only the weather was better.
Day 25: Start a Debt Reduction Plan -- Already in the works.
Today's challenge is... Day 26: Take the Marine Corps Fitness Test............... Yeah my fat ass is screwed....
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Monday, April 19, 2010
Update
Sorry for all those people that follow me... haha
Have not updated this in a bit, I kinda got busy with life :)
There are still challenges at work, things to do and I am still working on becoming a better man. Since my last entry there have been a few tasks - which I will touch on...
Day 10: Memorize “If” -- This is tough, while I understand the logic on how people now days rely too much on Google or cell phones for certain facts it’s important to keep things in check. While I have not memorized this poem I decided that to become a more cultured man also involves reading books that are important. Look forward to a review on that soon. In addition to being more cultured, I have decided to use the internet not as a crutch, but as a tool to teach me something new every day (dictionary.com / wiki)
Day 11: Give Yourself a Testicular Exam -- Insert joke about how men do this every day... lol but in seriousness. With Lisa having a breast cancer scare (and I was quite scared) it’s important to take care of our health. I encourage everyone to check this and get it out of the way. But in addition - take care of yourself. If something is wrong, get it checked. While it’s manly to 'tough it out' it’s even more manly to take care of yourself.
Day 12: Create Your Bucket List -- This one is actually fun and I was thinking about posting it on this site. You know, I think I will in a bit. It’s good to write down your dreams and hopes. Once it’s out there - you can see it can be done!
Day 13: Declutter Your Life -- Well, with work being an emotional gong show, this is happening for me... haha But in seriousness having priorities and focus helps us go far. Would I rather sit at home and play WOW or work in my yard? It’s about choices and at the end of the day my first priority should be Peyton and Lisa. It’s time to focus on that (especially when my shifts suck at work... lol)
Day 14: Write a Letter to Your Father -- Ahhh a letter to Dad.... I will leave that at that. But if you have issues, or wish for those 'tv dad experiences' chances are they won’t happen. But writing your feelings do help....
Day 15: Make a Meal --This is easy as I can cook (quite well actually). But for everyone else, not only is it a turn on for many women to date a man who can actually cook, it’s an important skill to have.
And today’s task is Create a budget. For me, this is already done and when you’re married tends to be created for you... HAHA
Other than all that, today is a day off so spending time with Peyton is on the docket. Hopefully she is in a better mood :)
Have not updated this in a bit, I kinda got busy with life :)
There are still challenges at work, things to do and I am still working on becoming a better man. Since my last entry there have been a few tasks - which I will touch on...
Day 10: Memorize “If” -- This is tough, while I understand the logic on how people now days rely too much on Google or cell phones for certain facts it’s important to keep things in check. While I have not memorized this poem I decided that to become a more cultured man also involves reading books that are important. Look forward to a review on that soon. In addition to being more cultured, I have decided to use the internet not as a crutch, but as a tool to teach me something new every day (dictionary.com / wiki)
Day 11: Give Yourself a Testicular Exam -- Insert joke about how men do this every day... lol but in seriousness. With Lisa having a breast cancer scare (and I was quite scared) it’s important to take care of our health. I encourage everyone to check this and get it out of the way. But in addition - take care of yourself. If something is wrong, get it checked. While it’s manly to 'tough it out' it’s even more manly to take care of yourself.
Day 12: Create Your Bucket List -- This one is actually fun and I was thinking about posting it on this site. You know, I think I will in a bit. It’s good to write down your dreams and hopes. Once it’s out there - you can see it can be done!
Day 13: Declutter Your Life -- Well, with work being an emotional gong show, this is happening for me... haha But in seriousness having priorities and focus helps us go far. Would I rather sit at home and play WOW or work in my yard? It’s about choices and at the end of the day my first priority should be Peyton and Lisa. It’s time to focus on that (especially when my shifts suck at work... lol)
Day 14: Write a Letter to Your Father -- Ahhh a letter to Dad.... I will leave that at that. But if you have issues, or wish for those 'tv dad experiences' chances are they won’t happen. But writing your feelings do help....
Day 15: Make a Meal --This is easy as I can cook (quite well actually). But for everyone else, not only is it a turn on for many women to date a man who can actually cook, it’s an important skill to have.
And today’s task is Create a budget. For me, this is already done and when you’re married tends to be created for you... HAHA
Other than all that, today is a day off so spending time with Peyton is on the docket. Hopefully she is in a better mood :)
Monday, April 12, 2010
30 days to a better man...
Well, I think I missed a few days...
I have to start a journal (I set that up) and reconnect with an old friend... this I dont really care about.
In my mind - if someone wanted to seek me out, they are more than welcome -- reading that, I am sure that is what everyone says... haha
To be blunt - I hardly have enough time with work and Lisa/Peyton to seek out any additional friends. I guess I will hold on to the friends I see. I dont have many 'close' friends (not that I am whining over it) I dont think I need them.
I guess, I just hope I am a good person :) At the end of the day - If people have a better day because of you, its worth it.
Succeed in that or fail - its what I try to do every day :)
Tomorrow's challange is to take a girl on a date.... With Lisa working, Peyton and me having weird shifts this is very hard..
I have to start a journal (I set that up) and reconnect with an old friend... this I dont really care about.
In my mind - if someone wanted to seek me out, they are more than welcome -- reading that, I am sure that is what everyone says... haha
To be blunt - I hardly have enough time with work and Lisa/Peyton to seek out any additional friends. I guess I will hold on to the friends I see. I dont have many 'close' friends (not that I am whining over it) I dont think I need them.
I guess, I just hope I am a good person :) At the end of the day - If people have a better day because of you, its worth it.
Succeed in that or fail - its what I try to do every day :)
Tomorrow's challange is to take a girl on a date.... With Lisa working, Peyton and me having weird shifts this is very hard..
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Back to 30 days to be a better man
Yesterday was all about taking the time and thank people for something they did for you. Ironically today is Day 6: Update Your Resume.
For those who work with me - you can see the obvious humor in this (but it was not planned)
That said you may also want to look at a cover letter as well.
For those who work with me - you can see the obvious humor in this (but it was not planned)
That said you may also want to look at a cover letter as well.
Friday, April 9, 2010
Manly Shave?
For those who know, care or even just are bored. I have been writing a blog about being more of a man.
Seriously, who honestly believes that they are as manly as their grandpa or even great-grandpa?
We have watered down what it means to be a 'stand up man' a 'gentleman' or even be as cliche as John Wayne. So, thats where the daily challanges or insights come into play!
Today was to express gratitude. Think of 3 things you are honestly thankful for and thank who was responsible or helped. It shows great character to not only be humble but appreciative.
/climb off soapbox
Now for some fun things... well ish.
I have also decided to start shaving like a man - what does that mean? you may be thinking, Hey Jason - I already shave - I use one of those cool 5 bladed razor thingys.
Well chum, what would you say if I told you that using the tools your grandpa used to shave can give you an equally close shave - without having to spend 5 bucks a blade? (more like 40 cents a blade)??
Flash to the world of old school wet shaving. With a razor (or safty razor if your a pussy like me) a shaving brush and some soap.
This is what arrived for me in the mail today... and I just had to try it.
Some pointers - ALWAYS shower before you shave with this kind of system - you will shred your face if you dont (like I did today since I dont have patience)
I found that after (even though my face was nicked up) my skin felt very smooth, smelled nice and it was actually fun... thats right not a chore!
I know I will get better in time, practice at my angles and finding out what blade is best for me (thats right, there are sooo many blade choices you can try a pack of 5 different blades for about 3 bucks so you wont break the bank while you find your 'perfect' blade.
Its a neat experiance - if I can spread the propaganda - check out the follwing links:
http://www.fendrihan.com/ == Fantastic online store for Canadians -- Service is amazing A+++
Great Shaving Advice on You Tube.... == This guy is fantastic, cheesy but his advice is sound
Its an adventure - that and as a cheap dutchman, a great shave at a huge discount is worth it!
Until next time
Seriously, who honestly believes that they are as manly as their grandpa or even great-grandpa?
We have watered down what it means to be a 'stand up man' a 'gentleman' or even be as cliche as John Wayne. So, thats where the daily challanges or insights come into play!
Today was to express gratitude. Think of 3 things you are honestly thankful for and thank who was responsible or helped. It shows great character to not only be humble but appreciative.
/climb off soapbox
Now for some fun things... well ish.
I have also decided to start shaving like a man - what does that mean? you may be thinking, Hey Jason - I already shave - I use one of those cool 5 bladed razor thingys.
Well chum, what would you say if I told you that using the tools your grandpa used to shave can give you an equally close shave - without having to spend 5 bucks a blade? (more like 40 cents a blade)??
Flash to the world of old school wet shaving. With a razor (or safty razor if your a pussy like me) a shaving brush and some soap.
Some pointers - ALWAYS shower before you shave with this kind of system - you will shred your face if you dont (like I did today since I dont have patience)
I found that after (even though my face was nicked up) my skin felt very smooth, smelled nice and it was actually fun... thats right not a chore!
I know I will get better in time, practice at my angles and finding out what blade is best for me (thats right, there are sooo many blade choices you can try a pack of 5 different blades for about 3 bucks so you wont break the bank while you find your 'perfect' blade.
Its a neat experiance - if I can spread the propaganda - check out the follwing links:
http://www.fendrihan.com/ == Fantastic online store for Canadians -- Service is amazing A+++
Great Shaving Advice on You Tube.... == This guy is fantastic, cheesy but his advice is sound
Its an adventure - that and as a cheap dutchman, a great shave at a huge discount is worth it!
Until next time
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Day 4 --- Testosterone?
Hey whoever reads this.
Here we are at day 4. Personally, it was an interesting day today but thats another tale. On to day 4.
Day 4: Increase Your Testosterone
I could not find a hobo to battle, but here is a link to help --
http://tinyurl.com/7jojfk
It is quite interesting the benefits T has on a man. I guess thats why it has a day to itself.
Personally -- I also have to lose my chub. Being tubby certainly hinders this goal and I look forward to making it better.
Here we are at day 4. Personally, it was an interesting day today but thats another tale. On to day 4.
Day 4: Increase Your Testosterone
I could not find a hobo to battle, but here is a link to help --
http://tinyurl.com/7jojfk
It is quite interesting the benefits T has on a man. I guess thats why it has a day to itself.
Personally -- I also have to lose my chub. Being tubby certainly hinders this goal and I look forward to making it better.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Day 3 - Find a mentor
Well this is an interesting one.
We have to understand that there is something missing in our lives, be it professionally or personally. Then we decide, who would be able to assist us or help us grow in this area.
On day 3, the challange is to come up with a mentor. But where to begin.
I made a list of area's I would like to improve - I guess a big challange is who do I ask to help me? My boss? By colleagues? My friends?
Who?
As a man, or woman for that matter -- we want to be successful in all aspects of our life.
I guess I am a coward, and someone who is not sure how to ask for help... But I can sure see the benefit of having someone teach you their experiances to help you find success.
Now where do I begin?
For the time being -- My mentor will be google. But hopefully something more will come of this (day 3 is not dead.. just taking longer to figure out...)
Tomorrow = Day 4, Increase Your Testosterone (did you know that stress and lack of sleep reduces your testosterone?)
We have to understand that there is something missing in our lives, be it professionally or personally. Then we decide, who would be able to assist us or help us grow in this area.
On day 3, the challange is to come up with a mentor. But where to begin.
I made a list of area's I would like to improve - I guess a big challange is who do I ask to help me? My boss? By colleagues? My friends?
Who?
As a man, or woman for that matter -- we want to be successful in all aspects of our life.
I guess I am a coward, and someone who is not sure how to ask for help... But I can sure see the benefit of having someone teach you their experiances to help you find success.
Now where do I begin?
For the time being -- My mentor will be google. But hopefully something more will come of this (day 3 is not dead.. just taking longer to figure out...)
Tomorrow = Day 4, Increase Your Testosterone (did you know that stress and lack of sleep reduces your testosterone?)
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Day 2: Shine Your Shoes
Certainly not as profound as coming up with core values, but from what I understand gone are the days of taking care of a very basic necessity, our shoes.
Personally I don’t wear suicide soles very often and my shoe of choice are slip on’s or sketchers but I took this day challenge to keep them in good shape.
Washed off the dust and mud, if they were funky clean them out Febreze = win.
While this project did not take as much self reflection, when I was looking after my shoes I began to reflect on where they have taken me, and where I am going. A good lesson and an easy day!
Tomorrow = finding a mentor.... so that will be interesting.
Oh, and not sure if anyone is following along, but I think its good to take inventory of ourselves and reflect – feel free to leave a comment!
L8TR
Personally I don’t wear suicide soles very often and my shoe of choice are slip on’s or sketchers but I took this day challenge to keep them in good shape.
Washed off the dust and mud, if they were funky clean them out Febreze = win.
While this project did not take as much self reflection, when I was looking after my shoes I began to reflect on where they have taken me, and where I am going. A good lesson and an easy day!
Tomorrow = finding a mentor.... so that will be interesting.
Oh, and not sure if anyone is following along, but I think its good to take inventory of ourselves and reflect – feel free to leave a comment!
L8TR
Monday, April 5, 2010
30 days to be a better man
Wow -- something with substance... haha
Work drama aside - I have been reflecting on my life and looking at my peers. Are we as manly as previous generations?
Personally, I try and live my life by a certain code. Nothing cheesy but honest.
I dont lie
I keep my word
I try and be a good person
These 3 have made me a pretty decent person I would figure - but what can I do to improve? In looking around the webernet I stumbled on the website : The Art of Manliness very interesting read and I decided to draw attention to this challenge (like I have a huge group of followers) and see if I can improve my life and those of my friends.
So,
Day 1: Define Your Core Values
In reading the site - this is not a set of goals, but core principals that guide us. I dont mind sharing this one, so my core values are (in no particular order)
1. Family
2. Financial Security
3. God
4. Honesty
5. Health
Day 2 looks interesting (Shine Your Shoes) but I glanced at other days... Day 11 is Give Yourself a Testicular Exam === I wonder if there is a profound learning on that one.
Till then, lets see where this goes!
Work drama aside - I have been reflecting on my life and looking at my peers. Are we as manly as previous generations?
Personally, I try and live my life by a certain code. Nothing cheesy but honest.
I dont lie
I keep my word
I try and be a good person
These 3 have made me a pretty decent person I would figure - but what can I do to improve? In looking around the webernet I stumbled on the website : The Art of Manliness very interesting read and I decided to draw attention to this challenge (like I have a huge group of followers) and see if I can improve my life and those of my friends.
So,
Day 1: Define Your Core Values
In reading the site - this is not a set of goals, but core principals that guide us. I dont mind sharing this one, so my core values are (in no particular order)
1. Family
2. Financial Security
3. God
4. Honesty
5. Health
Day 2 looks interesting (Shine Your Shoes) but I glanced at other days... Day 11 is Give Yourself a Testicular Exam === I wonder if there is a profound learning on that one.
Till then, lets see where this goes!
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Rebuild a NES
Yup,
I received a new 72 pin connector and decided to rebuild an old Nintendo NES.
It was not as hard as I thought - and everything worked when I put it back together! Win!
I received a new 72 pin connector and decided to rebuild an old Nintendo NES.
It was not as hard as I thought - and everything worked when I put it back together! Win!
Vegas
Well,
I got back yesterday from my first real vacation since I got married over 5 years ago. To say it was much needed is an understatement.
Some challanges. One, I will never try and save a buck by adding a stop in the flight. It is a pain in the ass. Flying direct is SOOOO much better.
We stayed at the MGM Grand. For someone who does not travel, this hotel was amazing. The room was a nice size and the staff treated us like we were of importance. It really made us feel special!
My job was to try and relax (we have had a lot of issues over the last few months and needed a break) I believe that a week in vegas was just what I needed. I learned how to play craps (I am far from a professional) but I do understand how to play. We did not gamble that much, but I did end up leaving with more then I arrived with (but shopping took most of that away.. haha)
We went to see KA.... That was a show and a half.
Long story short - I need to go somewhere every year... Stress will kill ya.
I got back yesterday from my first real vacation since I got married over 5 years ago. To say it was much needed is an understatement.
Some challanges. One, I will never try and save a buck by adding a stop in the flight. It is a pain in the ass. Flying direct is SOOOO much better.
We stayed at the MGM Grand. For someone who does not travel, this hotel was amazing. The room was a nice size and the staff treated us like we were of importance. It really made us feel special!
My job was to try and relax (we have had a lot of issues over the last few months and needed a break) I believe that a week in vegas was just what I needed. I learned how to play craps (I am far from a professional) but I do understand how to play. We did not gamble that much, but I did end up leaving with more then I arrived with (but shopping took most of that away.. haha)
We went to see KA.... That was a show and a half.
Long story short - I need to go somewhere every year... Stress will kill ya.
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